Being You 

Marja Zapusek had always wanted to be lawyer, but the reality of the job versus what she imagined while studying, turned out to be two very different things. It took her some time, but she’s finally left the job that was sapping her energy and now teaches Access Consciousness classes called ‘Being You Adventures’ which can, amongst other things, help people see if being true to themselves requires a change in circumstances.
 
When Marja finished college and qualified as a lawyer, she worked in a corporate environment. “I had always been a utopian idealist and wanted to work with underprivileged people - especially women and children - to give them a voice. The reality was that no one in the system really cared about justice, they just wanted to get things done quick and everything was about time and money - it was like a cold shower.”
 
Reality for Marja as a single mom meant that leaving a well-paid job wasn’t immediately possible, so she edged out slowly, doing more of what she loved outside of work hours until it felt do-able to start up on her own. “Like many people I knew I had to get out. I wasn't waking up happy or looking forward to work. There are so many people in that situation but it’s not always easy to get out if it’s not practical financially.”
When people in her Being You classes are questioning whether it’s the right time to leave their full time job in pursuit of their dreams, Marja helps them through the decision with a series of tools and processes. Here are some of her quick tips:
  1. Ask yourself questions, without any preconceived ideas of what the answer should be. Is this work situation tenable for me? What will the choice to leave create? How will that feel for me? If I leave, what will my life be like? Will I feel regret or relief? Don’t try and force answers one way or another, just gently pay attention to what comes up in your thoughts, not just immediately - but also in the days after asking those questions.
  2. Work out who you are being right now. If you’re not happy at work you may have taken on the values of your parents, or your peers or someone else who influences your life. Work out who you would be if you were truly being you, and what you would do next.
  3. Learn not to judge yourself. When you’re not judging yourself, it’s easier to see your own value and make those crucial decisions.
  4. Play with your intuition. Every situation has a feeling to it. When you’re making choices see which decision ‘feels’ lighter. If thinking about one of your options feels heavy, it might not be the right one for you.​

Topics:

  • Relationships
  • Career – how to do what you love and get paid for it
  • Single parent and happy – it is possible
  • How to get the best from your body
  • How to be seen and heard
  • How to find your true beauty

Dr. Dain Heer

Dain Heer is an internationally renowned author, speaker and facilitator of consciousness and change. For over 17 years, he has been inviting people to embrace their true greatness—people from every culture, country, age and social strata of society. Originally trained as a chiropractor, he has a completely different approach to healing by facilitating people to tap into and recognise their own abilities and knowing.
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In his talks and workshops, he uses a unique set of tools and provides step by step energetic processes to get people out of the answers, conclusions and judgments that are keeping them stuck in a cycle of no choice and no change – leading them into the moments of awe that have the power to change anything.

Marja in media talking about Being you:

Single Parenting & Happiness – Can Go Hand in Hand

What if you could lead a life that was an example for your child and could inspire them to chose greater for themselves?​

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